Look at the sadness in her eyes already. Does she look happy/comfortable being held by her father? How can a 65 year OLD man keep up with a child so young - without getting help from other people?? So which is better - a child being raised by nanny's/other people - or one being raised by her HEALTHY SOBER mother that is just 40 & FULL of LIFE that is used to playing, caring for, changing her, feeding her & above all - loving & nurturing her in a HEALTHY way???????